Hevra Kadisha and Tahara FAQs

A Hevra Kadisha is a “burial society” sometimes called a "secret society." The Community Hevra Kadisha of the North Shore Boston is a pluralistic Hevra that was formed because of a geographical need in the area. We perform Taharot (the ritual washing and dressing of a deceased before burial), when called upon for the North of Boston community.

Jewish rituals around death and dying focus on providing dignity and respect to the Met/Metah (deceased) always keeping the person top of mind as they transition. The Tahara is a good example of this as all parts are done for the benefit of the Met/Metah. The clothing that one is dressed in during this process is called Tachrichim, some may refer to it as a shroud, but it’s a white suit of clothing which signifies equality no matter their journey in life. The casket is “all wood constructed” usually made of simple wood often pine. The burial is generally held as quickly as the mourners can assemble. This has been the process for thousands of years and that tradition lives on today.

In Judaism, the responsibility of burial is known as Chesed Shel Emet. This may be translated as “the truest act of kindness” or “deeds of loving kindness.” This is because there can be no expectation of repayment. In other words, when we prepare a deceased for burial, we do so purely out of love and respect, with no motive of expecting reward.

Death is part of life. In times of illness and loss, we show up and care for each other, regardless of our social connections or professional credentials. Everyone is equal and they leave the earth as they entered, being washed and cleansed. For those who decide to have Tahara, the Hevra Kadisha provides comfort in knowing this Jewish ritual is available and done locally by their community.

The dignity of the Met/Metah (deceased) is most important. Men care for men, and women care for women. Our Hevra Kadisha welcomes all people regardless of gender identity. We offer altered liturgy for those who identify as non-Binary, trans or other.

The services of the Hevra Kadisha are considered optional at most Jewish funeral homes.  The Hevra Kadisha is invited by the Funeral Home to perform Tahara for those deceased requesting it. We believe that those who die in our community should be cared for by members of our community, not by strangers, at the sacred and vulnerable time of death. 

As a new Hevra, we are offering training sessions in person at the Funeral Home. Any Jewish person is welcome to learn and take steps to become a volunteer. You participate at the level you want. Check out the Volunteering section on this website.